My 1 year old Daughter Emuna

My 1 year old daughter Emuna already eating solid foods. In Hebrew we say כל הכבוד אמונה

She however is so different than her sisters. She rarely smiles. When she gets upset it is hilarious. She removes her pacifier and hurls it.

Neshama however use to always have a big ole smile on her face at her age and loved excitement and going out a lot. Neshama has not changed. She plays with her dolls at home. However, if you give her the option between staying at home playing with her dolls or tablet, or going to the park or on a trip. 99.9% of the time she chooses to go out. She always loved to be out of the house, and on weekends she missed the daycare because of the fun activities the children do there.

My dreams in this sense are fullfiled. I would have hated to isolate my daughters. Daycare has been a huge blessing, and all of my daughters have been to daycare. Daycare helps impove their social skills. I have seen the children that stay at home with their moms all day. My friend in fact did this to his children. His daughter was super anti-social and would hide behind her dad and mom when she was around people.

Anti-Social behaviour in Children sucks. When they go to school for the first time they are traumatized to part ways with their parents for a few hours. This crying and bickering happens for weeks until they get use to it. I remember my first day of school like if it was yesterday. I was so attached to my patents, especially my Mom, that i cried and felt so uncomfortable being around people i didn't know. This lasted for weeks! I did not want anything like this for my precious daughters. This was torture to me to be completely honest. These facts are my reasons to agreeing with my precious wife on having Neshama start daycare at the age of 2 months. Not that those were my wife's reasons, as hers were different. My wife doesn't like depending on anyone to take care of her children, as everyone has there own problems. My parents were never an option, for the truth is, as much as i love my parents, they are not good at raising children at all unfortunately. They are always arguing and fighting. That is not the environment i want for my daughters and neither does my wife. Same with Emuna. We also put her on daycare when she was two months old as well.



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