THIS ADOPTED CHILD

In today's world, we do not know what to believe and whom to believe as every body have a secret or two to hide from the other person, some times, the person they claim to be their best person.

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Today's world is just going to the left, with no hopes of it becoming better in the nearest future. Welp, what is to be expected? when most people of today do things because they feel like it.

Sometimes, i seat back and ask myself, what will be the future of the kids trained by these Gen z's? Are they going to be able to survive the harsh terrain of life? will they be taught how to navigate through life and make the best out of it? or will they succumb to the pressure of life, and be weaker than the current generation. i actually do not know where the current generation is going to, but then, it will hopefully go to a better place.

Sometimes, i watch paternity court on facebook, and i can not help it but the think - what if i was adopted? what if my mom cheated on my dad, and i was the result of an affair? its quite disturbing, but though we are all humans, i trust my mom to remain loyal and faithful to her husband, my father.

I do not want to ever think of it, but in a situation where i mistakenly found out that i was an adopted son, while my brothers and sister were not adopted, my reaction will be one of disappointment, sadness, and joy. i will have a mixed emotion, not know what to say, or do. I will first need a while to digest the information. I will first ask quetions that may not get any answers to.

After passing through the stages of grief, i will undoutedly listen to the explanation they have to give, afterwhich i will forgive them.

Them keeping the news away from me will be for a reason. Maybe they know that i will not be able to handle the news at the given moment or something. Or maybe i am not ready for the news, and they want me to grow up before they break the bad news to me. It may also be because of they want to protect my relationship with my siblngs.

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There are many reasons that i can think of which make them to not break the news to me. Though i will be sad and somewhat distant, i will still love and respect my parents because of their bravery to finally break the news to me. My love for them will not change, neither will my love for my siblings.

Inarguanly, i will see them from a different perspective,but then, home is not about biological mothers or fathers or siblings, but it is all about the love we share as a family. For this reason, i will keep loving them and i will always take them as my people.