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Age is really not a number, ones age rises with his experience so it's beyond just a number because those experience brings about maturity or the way we calculate is more advanced as a result of the experience.

But when it comes to having a spouse that is older than you expecially when he is ten to fifteen years older, there are a lot of things that are involved, let's look at it👇👇.

All about dating.

Dating is actually an incident that could eventually lead to marriage and so I won't advice you to joke with it, it involves activities that binds the two people involved preparing them for the future if possible, some people chose to call it courtship but all I know is that it brings two people in relationship together and it's not just any kind of relationship but a serious relationship built on their feelings for each other.

Generally, on the subject of DATING, there's no general age limit for dating and there's no proposed age to start dating and stuffs like that, everyone has his own concept when it comes to the subject of DATING, bit as for me, I would say that age distance has it's own effect on the people involved, we would discuss more about that in the next sub-topic👇👇.

Age-distance

Age distance is really a factor that affects many relationship, most times the reason it affects relationships is because of individual mind set or believe system.

There are different kinds of people, for instance;

• There are people that as far as the features the are looking for is in their spouse, they will go for it regardless of the age distance

• There are also people that the first thing the consider is the age distance so no matter how good the other person is, the age distance is already a barrier.

But as for me

Considering the age distance won't really be a problem for me if the age distance is not more than four years or maybe five years could be considered if I really love the person in question, this is because as people age up, they get more weary and for sure their clock is ticking so I wouldn't want to marry someone and become a widower after 10 years, no it's not going to be funny at all but if it's God's will then who am I to interrupt.

In summary, God's will is what we cannot fight against, so no matter what or how our mind set is, it must be adjusted to accept God's will so that we would prosper.

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