A real man should be romantic.
Hello ladies in the house. Happy Sunday. I feel so delighted to welcome you all back to my blog this beautiful Sunday. Is a beautiful day for me. I wish every day will be like today cause I really did enjoyed myself today.
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Okay friends, as usual in the #ladiesofhive, we have two great topics by @ifarmgirl, for week #153, but I want to go with the second question that says - what is the most mannerism and trait you spouse has that you wish he could do away with? Do you know what? Is just looked like @ifarmgirl knows what I have been battling with for weeks now. There is this trait that I have noticed for years in the life of my husband and when I see other men that are opposite, I just wished he could be like them. He is the I don't care type. He don't really care how you look, what you put on. He is just the unromantic type of man. I love men that are romantic. Men that want you to dress fine, men that really care about how you feel, men that know when you are not happy and want to make sure that you are happy. Men that moves around in the streets holding their wives and discussing. But is like what I have is the opposite. He is just like the black and white television of the olden days. No color. You don't feel too comfortable around them. His type just want to be left alone. If you are happy is your business. If you are sad too is your business. Whenever I am not happy and expect him to look at my face and ask me what the problem is, I will even realize that he doesn't know that I am sad about anything. Most times I just keep encouraging myself and moving, knowing very well that I am just alone and no one else. He may be there physically, but not emotionally.
I'm already used to it and I just use my experience to encourage other women to stand for themselves and don't sit down and wait for someone to stand for them. But if I am to make another choice today, I will rather go with a man who is romantic and not the other way round.
@hivedeb, please come over here and talk to the ladies.
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Well friend what you explain must be very disillusioning for you, really my question is how do you stay with him?
They are your choices and you have your own light. Keep shining.
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Hahaha 😂. I have been managing dear. I'm used to it and don't really care anymore. I just try as much as possible to make myself comfortable. Sometimes I do take myself out to give myself a good treat.
Thanks for asking.
That's quite tough but I'm glad to read that despite your husband's "i don't care" attitude, you still look after yourself and feel good. There are men like that who do not know how to show or express affection.
Keep standing firm !LADY ❤️
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Thanks dear. That is what our culture has turned our men into.
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I have to say, your dress is lovely!
I am sorry your husband doesn't read you better or at least inquires when you are happy or sad. Hopefully he will notice soon.
Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day!
Thanks ma'am. I am glad to hear from you today. Do have a lovely week ahead.
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Wao... My question is, have you ever discussed this with home because I believe communication is key in building healthy relationships
A man should be caring especially for her wife. I agreed with you, he should be able to ask her wife whether she is happy or sad. I 'm sorry lady to know about your husbands unromantic behavior. Here, I learned something about ladies from you, thank you for sharing your post.
Thanks for coming around. I really do appreciate.
I really feel your pains, you are indeed a strong woman to still be with him. Sometimes most of these men are replicating what they see happened as they grow. I think you should try talk to him about it.
You just made the point. He can't see reasons with me because he is not use to it. Men in their environment behave like that.
Thanks for hopping in
Oh! It will be difficult to change him.
That is right
Having a husband who is romantic is quite interesting as he would figure out ways to spice up the marriage. Thank God you are encouraging yourself and standing strong on your own, this is what it takes to e a strong woman. I hail you @adaezeinchrist.
Thanks dear. Do have a great day
You are welcome ma'am
The I dont care attitude is no-no but i think when you love someone you learned to accept certain things. you should tell him to try for you because he should to give 50%.
Thanks dear. I have done that and it has changed him a little.
This sounds like a lot. Have you tried communicating with him about this issue? I feel like if you talk about it with him and he cares about you, he will try to change. But then again I don't fully understand your relationship with him. I wish you happiness in the future.
Yeah. I think talking to him can't do much. I have done that countless times, but he is just the man that our society and culture wants him to be. The boss. The head. The one that gives oder. That is it dear.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.